"I see when men love women. They give them but a little of their lives. But women when they love give everything."

- Oscar Wilde

Like my previous blogs I talk about how some women put a little more effort on the relationship they are in. The women make a lot more sacrifices to be in a relationship-- there are likely the one's that are committed. There's no doubt that us, young women, like to give our all to a person who we think is the "right" one. I mean if you feel like you are about to spend the rest of your life with him/her what's wrong with giving your everything-- if that is what makes you happy then do it. But, sometimes guys tend to have one foot out the door and aren't as committed. Men are less likely to be super ready when they get into a relationship-- it's not that they are effortless but they're still in a stage where they still want to be "independent". They don't have to sacrifice as much and give a little of their lives to their partner. Is that really fair? Torvald Helmer gave Nora what any woman wants, money and luxury but really Nora wanted his heart completely and for him to treat her as a wife/love. Torvald failed to that-- he gave her little of his life and not realizing what he is giving her (luxury) is not enough. Money can buy you anything but love is what makes you even happier. Torvald needed that realization that Nora was always there for him and she loved him a lot. She gave up to always be home and took care of everything in the house. Torvald worked, but couldn't even give her himself fully. Money isn't everything, your reputation isn't everything-- love conquers? right.