"But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best."

— Marilyn Monroe

People have this mind set where they always want to find the "right" one. The perfect guy or girl is out there somewhere, right? I don't know if there is such a thing. People focus on that one little perfect thing they're looking for and ignore the fact that their "little perfect" thing also has flaws. Some people basically fool themselves, they set up their minds to only look at other people's "good" sides. So when a flaw comes out they completely question who really is this person they love-- "is this person really the right one?" Before jumping to anything serious, like a relationship or getting married, 2 people should get to know each other completely. Learn what ticks them off, or what makes them happy, or what annoys them; show each others TRUE COLORS. Instead of just seeing the picture, look at the bigger picture. Look outside the box and see everyone's stories. This related to A Doll's House because Torvald didn't bother to find out who and what Nora was. Instead he invented a character for Nora-- this sweet, innocent lady. Torvald was obviously loving somebody she wasn't when he found out what Nora did. He jumped into "my world is ending" because his little perfect one messed up once. When you marry or have someone you like/love and you decide to take the next steps, you live with all of who they are; whether you choose to believe it or not, people have flaws. That is something that isn't going to change, there's a little bit of good and bad in everyone. A person can be good but he/she is no angel; A person can sin but he/she isn't a devil. It's a part of life, so before even saying "i want to live with this person the rest of my life" try dealing what your partner's life. Torvald focused on his own and Nora left him. It's one simple step,  you either enjoy living with someone or you don't.